Keep calm…Benny on! Special needs parenting is hard.  I thought I would mention that just in case no one already knew this just by observing the brightly lit chaos surrounding our everyday life.  Most people that venture into our home, and notice the ever ready on-demand coffee made, acknowledge immediately that, indeed, we, the Benny people, depend heavily on the brew made from beans. Keeping calm…Benny-ing on is harder than it looks. I realized on one especially exhausting day that we could not keep going without getting Benny on some kind of calming meds.  Something to slow him down in his over...